Hawaii Parenting Plan Guide

What a Hawaii parenting plan should cover

• Legal custody: who makes decisions about school, healthcare, and religion.
• Physical custody: the residential schedule for weekdays, weekends, and holidays.
• A specific weekly or two-week custody schedule (2-2-3, 2-2-5-5, week-on/off, etc.).
• Holiday and school-break rotation, usually alternating odd/even years.
• Transportation and exchange rules — who drives, where, and at what time.
• Communication rules between parents and between each parent and the child.
• How future disputes will be handled (mediation, parenting coordinator, or court).

A simple Hawaii parenting plan template

Copy this outline into a document, fill in the specifics, and review with an attorney before filing with the Hawaii courts.

HAWAII PARENTING PLAN

1. PARTIES
   Parent A: __________________________
   Parent B: __________________________
   Child(ren):
     Name / DOB: ______________________

2. LEGAL DECISION-MAKING
   [ ] Joint    [ ] Sole (Parent A)    [ ] Sole (Parent B)
   Notes: ____________________________

3. RESIDENTIAL SCHEDULE (Time-Sharing Schedule)
   Regular schedule (specify pattern):
   ____________________________________
   Start date of cycle: _______________

4. HOLIDAYS & SCHOOL BREAKS
   Alternating odd/even years:
     Thanksgiving:   A odd / B even
     Winter break:   ______________
     Spring break:   ______________
     Summer:         ______________
     Birthdays:      ______________

5. EXCHANGES
   Location: __________________________
   Time: ______________________________
   Transportation responsibility: _____

6. COMMUNICATION
   Between parents: [ ] app  [ ] email  [ ] text
   Parent-child while at other home:
     Frequency: ______  Method: ______

7. DECISION FRAMEWORK FOR DISPUTES
   Step 1: Direct discussion (written)
   Step 2: Mediation
   Step 3: Court

8. SIGNATURES
   Parent A: _______________  Date: ___
   Parent B: _______________  Date: ___

Parent education class

Hawaii requires most divorcing parents with minor children to complete a court-approved parenting education program before the final decree. Check with your local Hawaii family court for approved providers — many offer online courses that can be completed in a single evening.

Child support in Hawaii

Hawaii uses the Melson Formula model: each parent keeps a self-support allowance first, the children's primary needs are covered next, and a share of whatever remains is added on top. The worksheet starts from net monthly income.

Hawaii uses the Melson formula with a $1,350-ish self-support reserve. Extensive time-sharing (143+ nights) triggers a separate worksheet.

Hawaii parenting plan FAQ